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Is a Personal Injury Settlement a Marital Asset in Florida?

Various categories are involved in personal injury settlements, including lost wages, medical expenses, and emotional harm. In some cases, it may even be possible to receive compensation for the repair or replacement of any property that was involved in the accident. You may also seek additional losses in specific circumstances. A lump-sum settlement is the most common way that personal injury settlements are paid. But in some cases, the settlement may involve structured payments made over months or even years.

Questions about the Award?

If you receive a personal injury settlement, you may be wondering if the funds you receive will be considered marital assets.  If you receive the payout during your marriage the award could be considered marital. Florida is an “equitable distribution” state. This means that assets accumulated during the marriage should be divided equally during a divorce.

Is Award Marital?

Florida, like other states, generally does not consider personal injury awards as marital property. However, there are exceptions to the rule. If you are awarded a personal injury settlement and worry that it may be considered marital assets, pay attention to these exceptions if you want to protect the settlement.  If the award is considered marital your spouse may be entitled to a portion of the award.

Exceptions to the Rule

Generally, personal injury awards are not considered marital property because they are awarded to cover the injury. However, there are situations that can make personal injury settlements subject to property division during a divorce.

Commingled funds

This can happen when the funds are placed in a joint account and used for marital debts and expenses, such as general household expenses and bills. To avoid the money becoming communal funds, keep the funds in a separate account titled only in your name.  You should consider this if you believe that your marriage will ultimately end in divorce. Or if your spouse did not contribute to the household during your injury and recovery. It is a good idea to get legal advice on this issue.

Records are Important

To prevent the courts from viewing your decision to place the funds in a separate account to hide assets during the divorce process, be ready to prove that the funds are being spent for the purpose they were awarded, which is personal injury recovery. Keep a record of how the funds were spent, such as hospital and therapy bills.

Injury Related Expenses

Marital assets were used to pay for injury-related expenses – The process of claiming a personal injury settlement can be a long one. During the legal process, you may need immediate medical treatment and need to pay out of pocket. If marital funds were used to pay for medical services and other injury-related expenses, the amount spent may be taken from the settlement funds and considered marital assets.

Uninjured Spouses Supported the Household

Uninjured spouses supported the household – Personal injury settlements typically include lost wages during the period that the injured party could not work. If the uninjured spouse worked and supported the household, the funds awarded for lost wages may be placed into the marital estate.

Keeping the personal injury compensation separate is the key to protecting your funds from becoming marital assets and subject to division during a divorce. However, you also have to consider whether your spouse supported the household while you recovered from your injury or if marital funds were used to pay for your medical expenses.

Whether you are the injured party or the uninjured spouse who may be entitled to a portion of the personal injury award, you should seek the advice of an experienced divorce lawyer.

Call Debora A. Diaz Esquire at 727-846-1802 to schedule a consultation or use the Scheduling Link: https://deboradiazlawscheduling.as.me/. All consultations are by telephone or video conferencing for efficiency and convenience.

Attorney Diaz practices exclusively in divorce and family law in Florida. Debora A. Diaz is also a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator.

Social Security Benefits for Divorced Spouses in Florida

As a divorced spouse, you may be eligible to receive Social Security benefits from your ex-spouse’s work record. However, before you can receive any help, there are requirements and criteria to meet. Here is what you need to know about social security benefits for divorced spouses in Florida.

Collecting Social Security from your Ex’s Work Record

If your ex-spouse is entitled to collect Social Security retirement or disability benefits, you may also be eligible to collect spousal benefits on their earning record. However, you can only collect spousal benefits from your ex-spouse’s social security if you meet specific criteria.

First of all, the marriage should have lasted at least ten years. Following your divorce, you should not have remarried. You don’t necessarily have to be single: you just can’t be legally married. You will lose eligibility to collect benefits if you remarry while receiving benefits based on your ex-spouse’s entitlement. Lastly, you must be 62 years old when you apply for spousal benefits.

At the minimum required age of 62, you may be able to receive 32.5% of your ex-spouse’s benefits, regardless of whether or not they applied for benefits as well. The highest you can receive is 50% of their benefits, as long as you’ve reached retirement age, which will be at some point 67 years old. Social Security benefit rules are complex.

Don’t expect to receive combined benefits. You can still claim ex-spousal benefits even if you already receive retirement benefits on your work records. However, if you file for ex-spousal benefits, Social Security will only pay whichever of the two amounts are higher.

Survivor Benefits

If your ex-spouse is deceased, you may be entitled to survivor benefits, which involve receiving 100% of the amount your ex-spouse was eligible to receive if they never claimed benefits. It’s worth noting that any benefits you receive from your ex’s work record will not affect the benefits paid out to them by Social Security; it will also have no impact on their current spouse, assuming they remarried.

How to Apply for Social Security Benefits

To file for spousal benefits, you can visit the Social Security Administration (SSA) office or file online on their official website. You are not required to inform your ex-spouse of the application, as it will not affect any of their social security credits. You will have to provide the following requirements:

• Birth Certificate or any legitimate confirmations of your birth details
• Official proof of citizenship or legal immigration status
• Ex-Spouse’s Social Security Number
• Marriage Certificate
• Divorce Decree

During the filing process, you will include your work record and ex-spouses. Because this ensures they can seek a higher benefit percentage from both of you, you will only receive the highest one.

To learn more about what you may be entitled to receive even after a divorce, call Debora A. Diaz Esquire at 727-846-1802 to schedule a consultation or use the Scheduling Link: https://deboradiazlawscheduling.as.me/. Consultations are by telephone or video conferencing.

Attorney Diaz practices exclusively in divorce and family law in Florida. Debora A. Diaz is also a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator.

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How Does the Judge Determine Alimony in a Divorce?

The divorce process can be difficult for many people, but it can also be confusing. One aspect of divorce that is often misunderstood is alimony. What does the judge look at when determining alimony? How much will you get if you are awarded alimony, and what are some things to consider as part of divorce negotiations? To better understand how judges in Florida determine alimony, let’s discuss the different types of alimony and the factors affecting the court’s decision.

Types of Alimony

There are different types of alimony. Temporary alimony covers the time between divorce or separation, as well as divorce proceedings. There will need to be an end date when negotiating your settlement agreement; it can only last up until one party remarries or cohabits with someone else (in other words, they may get less money) unless the parties agree otherwise.

You might want temporary alimony if you do not have any means of supporting yourself while going through divorce proceedings and need more time to find a job following divorce. Alimony will often favor the spouse with lower earning potential because of caregiving duties—such as childcare and eldercare.

Another type of alimony is rehabilitative alimony. This can be awarded to someone who needs time and financial support to get back on their feet following divorce or separation. It’s typically only granted for three years, but it might last another five if the person receiving payment continues getting better during that time frame. This also depends upon whether they have family members or friends helping them out with day-to-day living expenses.

There is also permanent alimony. Florida permanent alimony is periodic payments of financial support paid to an ex-spouse for an indefinite duration. The purpose of Florida’s permanent alimony law is not to divide future income. Instead, it is to provide for the needs of a former spouse, as they were established during the marriage. Permanent alimony is only proper when the evidence shows a permanent inability of the ex-spouse to become self-sustaining. Permanent alimony is typically only awarded upon the divorce of a long-term marriage which is defined as a marriage lasting 17 years or more.

Factors That Determine Alimony

Florida divorce laws are not as rigid as some other states, and the judge will have a lot of discretion in awarding alimony. Many factors determine how much alimony one party should be awarded to the other, such as length of the marriage, health, work history, and age.

For example, if one spouse is significantly older than the other, then they might get more alimony because they will need it for their retirement. Healthy spouses might not need alimony as much.

Which spouse has custody of the children is also taken into account when deciding alimony. A parent who spends more hours taking care of their child may get less help from an ex-spouse’s support payments than someone with fewer dependents to take care of.

A divorce case can have many different outcomes depending on how much money either party makes, what property they own together or individually, and other factors such as adultery in the relationship, among others. The divorce courts in Florida will also consider how much time a person has spent in the workforce and what their earning potential might be.

Attorney Diaz has served the Tampa area since 1995 and can answer your child support questions, including how to enforce child support. Attorney Diaz practices exclusively in divorce and family law in Florida.

If you would like to discuss the specifics of filing a petition or modifying an order for alimony call Debora A. Diaz Esquire at 727-846-1802 to schedule a consultation or use the Scheduling Link: https://deboradiazlawscheduling.as.me/.   For convenience, all consultations are by telephone or video conferencing.

Debora A. Diaz is also a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator.

Divorce Assets
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It’s hard to think about the worst-case scenario when you plan to get married. After all, thinking about the possibility of you or your spouse asking for a divorce someday can dampen the mood of marital bliss and romance. This refusal to recognize the possibility of divorce and the fear it will ruin the romance is why many couples refuse to consider prenuptial agreements.

But what if you acquired property and saved a significant amount of money? Or what if you made potentially high-yielding investments before you got married? The reality is that being unprepared for this possibility of divorce may leave you worrying about how to protect your assets someday.

Plan Ahead to Protect Your Assets

It can be easy for one spouse to take advantage of the other. It is important to plan ahead of the divorce. That is why divorcing couples should consider taking legal steps before anything goes wrong with their relationship and all assets become shared property. Ways you can protect your assets include prenuptial agreements and estate planning.

If you are preparing for a divorce and have no prenuptial agreement in place, there are still things you can do to protect your assets from your soon-to-be-ex.

Tip: If you are going to receive an inheritance it is a good idea to consult an attorney if you wish to keep the inheritance protected in a divorce.

Understand the Basics of Division of Marital Assets: Know what you are entitled to.

In Florida, divorce proceedings are equitable.  This means that spouses will not be entitled to more than they would receive if the divorce had occurred without fault. 

The law on the division of marital assets means that divorce courts will not favor one spouse over another. The divorce proceedings are more or less a 50/50 split with some wiggle room for exceptions based on factors like adultery, mental abuse, etc.

Division of marital assets includes things such as property acquired during the marriage. These often include the house, car, investments, retirement accounts, and anything else acquired during the marriage. These are typically split evenly between spouses.  There are some exceptions for things like divorce settlements or agreements reached before divorce proceedings began.

The divorce process also includes other assets, such as pension plans and retirement accounts. That said, it is essential to know what you’re entitled to in a divorce before negotiating the terms of such with your spouse. In Florida, both parties must agree about how to divide these types of assets.

Therefore, one of the first steps when going through a divorce is to classify property into marital and separate properties. Only marital assets and debt are subject to equitable distribution. So if you have assets that qualify as individual property, your spouse is not entitled to it.

Differentiating marital properties from separate assets is usually a straightforward process. However, it can become complicated in high-asset divorces.  Sometimes spouses demand more than they are entitled to. If you have separate assets and worry about your spouse fighting to take a portion of it, hire an experienced divorce attorney who will represent your interests. All cases are fact-specific.

Attorney Diaz has served the Tampa area since 1995 and can answer your questions regarding the division of assets.  Attorney Diaz practices exclusively in divorce and family law in Florida.

If you would like to discuss the specifics of your assets and the impact of a divorce call Debora A. Diaz Esquire at 727-846-1802 to schedule a consultation or use the Scheduling Link: https://deboradiazlawscheduling.as.me/.   All consultations are by telephone or video conferencing in order to protect our staff and clients.

Debora A. Diaz is also a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator.

How to Achieve a Modification of Alimony
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How to Achieve a Modification of Alimony

In order to have the alimony you are currently ordered to pay reduced or stopped altogether, you must file a petition.  This will allow for modification of your current alimony payments if the burden is met. If you believe you are eligible to stop paying alimony altogether, your attorney may file a Petition for Abatement. Your petition will be filed in court.  Depending on the rules of your local court, a modification may reopen your prior divorce case.  You may be required to institute a new action.

To reopen your original divorce case, your attorney may use the case number from your original divorce as well as the same style of heading.

If it is for a new case, you are petitioning the court for a modification of alimony and your former spouse is responding to that petition.

You will receive a new case number and will probably pay a filing fee.

Process

Your petition may be served on your ex through a process server or through a law enforcement official in your county. When the petition is served, a Return of Service will be issued, providing a record of when your ex-spouse was served. At this point, the receiving spouse has the right to file an answer to your petition or a counter-petition.  Then your attorney will be required to file an answer to the counter-petition, on your behalf.

Mandatory Disclosure

You will be required to produce financial disclosure documents to prove your case. You may have to produce bank statements, pay stubs, any other proof of income, or notice of a lay-off (if this is your reason for requesting a modification).

False Information Provided By Your Ex During the Divorce

If you are filing for a modification or abatement of alimony based on the fact that your spouse provided false information during the divorce which resulted in the alimony award, you will be required to produce documentation to prove such fraud. For claims of fraud, there is a specific time limit for filing for a modification of alimony.

Burden

The Florida courts require that to obtain a modification of alimony there must be a substantial change in circumstances since the original order of alimony.  This change in circumstances was not contemplated during the original proceedings and the change is “sufficient, material, involuntary and permanent in nature.”

Is a Decreased Ability to Pay Sufficient to Warrant a Modification of Alimony?

A decreased ability to pay may justify alimony modification so long as it is not voluntary, and it appears the change is more than short-term. In 1992, the Florida Supreme Court held that voluntary retirement on the part of the spouse paying alimony could be considered a change of circumstances that warranted reduction or termination of alimony. While the court did not specifically address the “allowable” age of retirement, they did indicate that retirement prior to age 65 would likely be presumed unreasonable. An improvement of the economic situation on the part of the receiving spouse may or may not warrant a modification of alimony.

Alimony Factors

The circumstances of both parties will be scrutinized to determine whether a reduction in alimony is justified. Suppose the receiving spouse’s income increased significantly, but so, too, did the paying spouse’s income. In such a situation, the court might not agree to a modification. On the other hand, if the paying spouse was making $60,000 per year at the time of the divorce while the receiving spouse was making $15,000, yet five years later the paying spouse was still making $60,000 per year while the receiving spouse was bringing in $45,000, this could be reason enough for the courts to approve a modification of alimony award.

Income is not the only factor; gifts, inheritance, and lottery winnings may also be considered when determining the outcome of a modification of alimony. Increased need—on its own—may not qualify for an increase in alimony, and expenses related to a subsequent marriage will also not support a modification of alimony.  If you are considering a modification of alimony it is recommended to consult with an experienced family law attorney to discuss the applicable law and all of your options.

If you would like to discuss the specifics of your alimony modification or need help with other family law issues call Debora A. Diaz Esquire at 727-846-1802 to schedule a consultation or use the Scheduling Link: https://deboradiazlawscheduling.as.me/.  At this time, all consultations are by telephone or video conferencing in order to protect our staff and clients.

Attorney Diaz practices exclusively in divorce and family law in Florida. Debora A. Diaz is also a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator.

Written by Debora A. Diaz, Esq.

Narcissist Spouse
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How to Protect Yourself When Divorcing a Narcissist

Narcissists believe the rules, even the law, do not apply to them. They enjoy the hostile nature of divorce and will manipulate the system in whatever way they can in order to “win.”

Narcissist: To a narcissist, divorce is not only a failure: but a dark mark on their perfect reputation. Because they cannot tolerate anything less than perfection, their coping mechanism is to place all the blame on you. It does not matter if they were the ones who initiated the divorce, even your existence is a reminder of their failure, and therefore you must be punished.

Divorcing a Narcissist: Typically, a divorce involving a narcissist is at higher risk of becoming highly conflictual. In these situations, it is necessary to look for help from a divorce attorney experienced in dealing with this personality type. You must be clear about what you are going to face during this procedure. Here are five ways to protect yourself from a narcissist.

Accept that narcissists won’t “get over it.”

Narcissists are not capable of empathy. They only care about their own needs. And during the divorce, they need to transfer the shame onto you. To prevent the mind games that narcissists often play, try looking for a therapist or counselor. They can teach you coping skills so you can deal with any emotional difficulties that will come your way.

Prepare for bad-mouthing. 

A narcissist will trash you to anyone who may listen: the teachers, the nannies, or family doctors. While you know that these attacks are the narcissist’s projections, and you shouldn’t take them personally, you should be proactive, especially if you are battling for custody. Make sure you show everyone involved that you are a responsible parent.

Bad boundaries 

A narcissist cannot accept limits. They can’t handle not being in control of every moment of the children’s lives, and they are scared that they will love you more than they love them. Their attempts to regain control will lead to dramatic boundary-breaking. Expect that they will try to tear you down, so be sure to keep your boundaries firm.

Consult with your attorney if you should get these kinds of issues and get boundaries written into your divorce agreement and child custody order. Also, notice a narcissist who has crossed the line to stalking or harassment. In these cases, issuing a Temporary Restraining Order may be needed.

Cyberbullying 

The emotional abuse usually continues via nasty texts and messages now that you’re separated. Keep your responses as brief as possible and try to limit your communication to a maximum of once a day. Sometimes the best response is no response.

You also may need to block them or, likewise, if this behavior appears to get to the level of stalking or cyber harassment, a law enforcement intervention may be needed.

You now get the role of hired help. 

You are not a co-parent anymore; you are now considered a nanny or a maid. Especially if you are getting child support, the narcissist can treat you as if you are his employee and must do as they say.

This is why getting it in writing is crucial. When divorcing a narcissist, an oral agreement to pay child support probably will not do. Having a court order can help prevent the withholding of payments.

Keep in mind that you will not be able to change your ex, but you can know what to expect so you can prevent the damage.

If you would like to discuss the specifics of your divorce or paternity case or need help with other family law issues call Debora A. Diaz Esquire at 727-846-1802 to schedule a consultation or use the Scheduling Link: https://deboradiazlawscheduling.as.me/.  At this time, all consultations are by telephone or video conferencing in order to protect our staff and clients.

Attorney Diaz practices exclusively in divorce and family law in Florida. Debora A. Diaz is also a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator.

Written by Debora A. Diaz, Esq.

Choose Divorce Attorney
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How Do I Choose A Divorce Attorney?

Choosing an attorney is the most important step of a divorce process.

Here is some advice to consider to help you with your search!

Understand the Role of an Attorney

Divorce is undoubtedly emotionally draining. But it is better to call a friend, family member, or therapist who can and be there for you and listen to your concerns.

Fees

Although your divorce attorney is also “there for you,” they are probably charging hourly, so you should use this time to strategize instead of to vent.

Know What You Need to Get Out of Divorce

If there are children or significant assets involved, it is likely your divorce may end up in a trial. But if you and your ex-partner can settle the separation outside of court, a lawyer who is also an experienced mediator could be better suited for you.

Research Divorce Attorneys Near You

If you have never looked for an attorney before, you may not know where to begin. If you asked for referrals from friends and family but still could not find anyone, contact your state Bar Association.

Once you have found some names, visit their websites, and check who you will work with, the types of divorce cases the firm deals with, and other variables that can make choosing easier. Also read all of their reviews on Google and other sites if available.

Schedule Meetings With Your Top Choices

Once you’ve narrowed down your options, schedule a few meetings with your top choices. Some attorneys offer reduced rates, so remember to ask when you plan the meeting. Come prepared with any documents you might need for this first meeting. The more information you can give, the better you will be able to decide if this firm is right for you. Also, do not be afraid to ask questions.

Find a Good Negotiator

The goal of the divorce should be to come to a fair settlement and to avoid court. Some lawyers prefer to fight in a trial, but that method makes the case much longer and much more expensive. By reading attorney backgrounds and reviews you should get a sense of what their philosophy is and how they approach cases.

Find Someone Who Has Experience With Your Interests

If you have children and can predict a problematic custody dispute, you need to be sure your attorney is very familiar with how the support and custody laws work in your area. But if you have a business and the lawyer does not have much experience with business distribution and valuation, you may want to keep looking.

Ask the Right Questions

When you meet with a lawyer, bring a list of questions about your concerns in the divorce case and your concerns in choosing an attorney. Ask how the firm bills its clients and about the billing rates for every person who will be working on your case.

Communication With Office

Be sure your attorney or someone else in the office will return your phone calls within a reasonable time and that you will get copies of all correspondence and pleadings received and generated. Also, be careful if an attorney guarantees certain results. They can only promise to use their best efforts in representing you.

Develop Good Communication

Above all else, you and your attorney have to be able to communicate effectively. Your attorney can give you your choice of options and suggest the probable outcome of each option. Remember, nothing is certain here, and there are no guarantees.

Takeaway

Getting divorced is certainly a difficult process, one that you will definitely handle better with a good attorney by your side. Do your research, meet with your top choices, and you will be able to make the right decision.

Attorney Diaz has over 25 years of practice in family law issues.  If you would like to discuss the specifics of your divorce case or need help with a family law case, call Debora A. Diaz Esquire at 727-846-1802 to schedule a consultation or use the Scheduling Link: https://deboradiazlawscheduling.as.me/.  At this time, all consultations are by telephone or video conferencing in order to protect our staff and clients.

Attorney Diaz practices exclusively in divorce and family law in Florida. Debora A. Diaz is also a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator.

Written by Debora A. Diaz, Esq.

Spouse asked for Divorce
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My Spouse Just Asked for a Divorce- What Do I Do Now?

If your spouse just asked for a divorce, you are probably feeling lost and scared. Here are some steps to get you through one of life’s most stressful situations.

Ask Your Partner If Divorce is Really the Answer

Why do they want a divorce? How did it get to this point? Could counseling work? Is there a chance of reconciliation? Do they want to see you change and admit mistakes? An important step in the divorce process is being sure that divorce is the answer.

Get Empowered

When people are facing a divorce, they go through feeling scared, sad, and shocked. Try to see this as an opportunity for a fresh start in life. You need to realize that divorce does not mean you have failed. Instead of ruminating about why the marriage did not work, focus on what you want to get out of the divorce. Next, you need to let go of blame. Fighting with your partner or retaliating against them will certainly leave you in a worse place emotionally and financially.

Get Educated

Learn all you can about the divorce laws in your state. Will your property be divided 50/50 or equitably? Do you have a prenuptial agreement? How do you plan to handle custody matters?

The three main topics of divorce are generally child custody, property division, and spousal support. Make a plan and list out your most important goals.

Find a Good Lawyer

Find an experienced attorney who will put your financial and personal interests first. Do not use the same attorney you share with your partner. Ask about the attorney’s detailed fees for services and make sure you feel comfortable with them.

Your divorce lawyer should know how to safeguard your assets, and, ideally, they should also have contacts in tax law, real estate law, and business law. Try to get referrals for attorneys from your trusted family members, friends, and business associates.

Make an Appointment with a Divorce Attorney

Choosing an attorney to meet with is the most important decision that you need to make. Make this decision as soon as possible so that you can be informed about the divorce process. You need to meet with the lawyer and have a feel for how willing they are to tell you things you do not like to hear, and then decide who to hire. The person you choose must be willing and able to tell you the truth in this emotionally difficult time. If you are not certain about whether you should hire a particular attorney, make another appointment with them, or meet with someone else.

Close Joint Accounts

Consider closing credit accounts that your partner has access to in order to protect your credit rating. The goal is to prevent your partner from making large debts before you finalize the divorce.

With joint credit cards, you are responsible for any debts taken on by your partner, and if they can’t pay the debts, you may be held accountable.

Keep Your Children Away

You do not want to have your children around when you are hanging around a courthouse, fighting with your spouse, or sitting in your lawyer’s office having conversations that are only meant for adults.

Takeaway

If divorce is the only option, it is best for you to get educated and empowered and to get a good lawyer. It may be difficult, but you will get through this with the right support.

If you would like to discuss the specifics of your divorce case or need help with other family law issues call Debora A. Diaz Esquire at 727-846-1802 to schedule a consultation or use the Scheduling Link: https://deboradiazlawscheduling.as.me/.  At this time, all consultations are by telephone or video conferencing in order to protect our staff and clients.

Attorney Diaz practices exclusively in divorce and family law in Florida. Debora A. Diaz is also a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator.

Written by Debora A. Diaz, Esq.

Top 5 Time Sharing Calendar Programs for Co-Parenting
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Learning how to co-parent can be challenging. To manage it well, you need to be flexible, patient, able to compromise, and you should use every type of support you can get. This is where a great co-parenting app comes in handy.

When your kid(s) are going back and forth between your ex-partner’s house and yours, organization is essential. So how can you pull this off? Co-parenting apps are there to make your life just a little easier. These are some of the highly recommended options:

1. The Family Core

This app is great, not just for co-parents but caregivers in general. It allows anyone you choose to access your kid’s schedule, so you can together more easily organize parenting time or drop-offs and pickups, doctors’ appointments, school events, etc. And it is completely customizable.

2. 2houses

This app provides a way to communicate with your ex-partner when phone, text, or email are not working. The app helps parents keep track of all activities, schedules, and exchange information concerning their kid(s), from school appointments to medical notes. 2houses also provides a messaging option, mediator access, and document storage, both for iOS and Android.

3. Cozi

This award-winning program lets you create a shared calendar, shopping and to-do lists, and meal plans. With its cool features and easy-to-use interface, Cozi is one of the best co-parenting apps available.

4. Coparently

This app offers all the tools you need to make co-parenting as simple as possible, with its color-coded custody calendars, records for shared expenses, a secure messenger, and a shared online directory for all important contact information (doctors, babysitters, friends). Coparently lets you add your kid(s) to the account so they can use it to communicate with you, but they won’t have access to other features.

5. Our Family Wizard

This app is an online tool designed specifically for co-parents. It lets parents manage all aspects of their shared parenting agreement in one space, from calendars and schedules to expenses. Our Family Wizard also provides Apple and Android users apps for communication on the go.

6. Custody X Change

This app was developed by legal professionals, and it tracks the time each parent spends with their kid(s). Custody X Change’s features include time-stamped journal entries, expenses tracking options, and communication tools designed to help co-parents uphold their custody plan.

7. Talking Parents

This smart app was designed to increase the accountability of co-parents while reducing conflict. It tracks communication between co-parents and provides features like shared calendars, communications, and documents, all stored as unchangeable records that you can access and use later if needed.

8. WeParent

The creator of WeParent, who received a Ph.D. in Psychology, used psychological research to create an app that reduces stress and conflict in divorced parents’ relationships. It helps you manage appointments and events, documents, custody schedules, expenses, and messaging. The goal is to minimize or eliminate conflicts and help parents focus on raising healthy and happy kids.

If you have questions about divorce, child support, shared parental responsibility, time-sharing/parenting time, and parenting plans, contact Debora A. Diaz Esquire at 727-846-1802 to schedule a consultation or use the Scheduling Link: https://deboradiazlawscheduling.as.me/.

At this time, all consultations are by telephone or video conferencing in order to protect our staff and clients.

Attorney Diaz practices exclusively in divorce and family law in Florida. Debora A. Diaz is also a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator.

Written by Debora A. Diaz, Esquire.

Best Interest Children Florida Statute 61.13
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In cases of marriage dissolution or petition for paternity, parents who will share time with their minor child or children are required by Florida law to have a written parenting plan. For it to be approved by the court, it must detail a plan of how the parents will share responsibilities in daily parenting tasks, health care, school-related matters, and other activities. The parenting plan should also outline the child’s time-sharing schedule and the communication methods and technologies that the parents will use to communicate with each other and the child.

However, when it comes to the negotiation and agreement of shared parental responsibility and time-sharing/parenting time in a child custody matter, decisions are not made by whichever parent or primary caregiver has spent the most time with the child. While they may feel they know the child best, a judge ultimately makes decisions in child custody disputes using the “best interests of the child” as the primary consideration if the parties are not in agreement.

What does “best interests of the child” in Florida mean? 

Florida Statute 61.13(3) provides a list of 20 factors to help determine “the best interests of the child.” The judge may consider any factor that is relevant to the individual situation. The 20 factors can be categorized under the demonstrated capacity and disposition of each parent to fulfill parenting responsibilities, the health and safety of the child, the child’s emotional and developmental needs, and the moral fitness of each parent. Here is a summary of the 20 factors:

1. Demonstrated capacity and disposition to honor the time-sharing schedule and maintain a close parent-child relationship
2. The anticipated division of parental responsibilities
3. Demonstrated capacity and disposition of each parent to act upon the needs of the child
4. Length of time the child has lived in a stable environment
5. Geographic viability of the parenting plan
6. Moral fitness of the parents
7. Mental and physical health of the parents
8. The child’s home, school, and community record
9. The child’s preference
10. Demonstrated knowledge of each parent to be informed and involved in the child’s life, including knowing the child’s friends, daily activities, and favorite things
11. Demonstrated capacity of each parent to provide a consistent routine
12. Demonstrated capacity of each parent to communicate with the other parent
13. Evidence of domestic violence, sexual violence, child abuse, child abandonment, or child neglect
14. Evidence that either parent has knowingly provided false information to the court
15. The extent of the parenting tasks performed by each parent
16. Demonstrated capacity of each parent to be involved in the child’s school and extracurricular activities
17. Demonstrated capacity of each parent to maintain a substance-free environment for the child
18. The capacity of each parent to protect the child from ongoing litigation
19. Demonstrated capacity of each parent to meet the child’s developmental needs
20. Any other factors relevant to the parenting plan, including the time-sharing schedule.

What Happens if Parties do not Reach Agreement? 

I must stress that if the parties cannot reach an agreement on shared parental responsibility and time-sharing ultimately, the judge will determine parenting arrangements in child custody cases based on the “best interests of the child,” giving weight to parents who have demonstrated capacity and disposition to also put the child’s best interests first.

If you need help understanding the factors that determine the “best interests of the child” and what you can do to prove your capacity and disposition, consult a divorce and family law attorney.

I have over 25 years of experience in the practice of family and marital law in the state of Florida. If you have questions about divorce, child support, shared parental responsibility, time-sharing/parenting time, and parenting plans, contact Debora A. Diaz Esquire at 727-846-1802 to schedule a consultation or use the Scheduling Link: https://deboradiazlawscheduling.as.me/.

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Attorney Diaz practices exclusively in divorce and family law in Florida. Debora A. Diaz is also a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator